High on the bestseller lists this week is a book called The Rules, a guide to dating and courting for women which effectively advocates that women, in order to snag a man, follow a sexist and manipulative dating game based on the principles of 50 years ago.
Most men will pay for first dates, but some won’t pay or expect the woman to pay for her share.
Here is some advice for a woman going on a first date: Ladies, after you have been on your first date or two with a man, the rules change a little.
Do not expect the man to continue to pay for nice dinners and evenings out, even though some men will still pay.
Here is some advice as your dating relationship gets more serious: The most important piece of dating etiquette for a woman is to be respectful of the man you are dating.
You now have the opportunity to experience women as you never have before.
The good news is that there are very few rules anymore about who you can date.
Women of all ages, races and cultural backgrounds are available now in a way that they weren’t 30 years ago.
As long as you show respect, curiosity and genuine interest in a woman as a person, doors will open wide for you.
She only wants to talk about relationships and girl stuff anyway. In the meantime you can flirt with the other girls on the dance floor.
Buy her a nice meal, so that she knows what she owes you in exchange for the meal.
Let go of past attachments, know your value, develop your social circle, get into shape and take small, consistent, regular actions.