Psychopathic lovers project upon their partners the fantasy of what psychologists call the “omniavailable woman.” They envision a partner who’s always turned on, always at their beck and call, always sexually available to them anytime and everywhere.
They want a woman who makes love to them as easily in the privacy of their bedroom as in the public space of a movie theater or a parking lot. But in real, loving, relationships your moral and sexual boundaries are respected without the fear (or the implicit threat) that you’ll be punished for having such restraints. In those, it’s guaranteed that you’ll be punished–with infidelity, emotional withdrawal, abandonment, divorce, psychological and sometimes even physical abuse–if you don’t comply with the psychopath’s requests.
Initially, it may seem flattering, even if a bit disconcerting, to have a man who seems unable to keep his hands off you anywhere and everywhere, including in public.
Psychopaths have low impulse control and are generally very promiscuous.
Since they need transgression, risk and variety in their lives, they’re likely to have tried a lot of sexual positions in many locations with numerous partners.
Of course, this emotional blackmail is itself only a sordid joke.
The psychopath betrays you whether or not you meet his demands.
Initially, their ample sexual experience can appear exciting even to a normal person.
In the honeymoon phase of the relationship, a psychopath is generally hypersexual with you.
Fortunately, she realizes this and escapes his control before she’s seriously damaged. It may seem exciting to play erotic games or to talk in a raunchy manner.
But, over time, this behavior begins to feel strange and uncomfortable.
Others, on the contrary, prefer that their women dress provocatively even in public, to demean them and satisfy their penchant for transgression.
Many psychopaths engage in rape and other forms of domestic violence.
What starts out as a romantic relationship progressively turns into a menacing dominance bond. For instance, he gives her an expensive watch and tells her to look at it and think of him every day at a certain time.